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November 8, 2013February 16, 2017

frankly…

i had a moment of…awe this week – of reflection and actually true humility.
i was emailing back and forth with kiki and she asked me what i was passionate about (after reading my post). It was a great question – one i was so willing to throw out into the world – so willing to hear and receive answers from. but when asked – Amy, what are you passionate about? – it took me a lot longer than a few minutes to reply. why? because satan has stolen some of my passion. diminished it – locked it away – made me feel worthless.
i guess that is what it boils down to – feeling worthless.
feeling not good enough.

ladies…i’m sure you can relate with me on this.
we as women are hunted by satan (as are men). he sees our beauty – our reflection of God and hates us. he wants to rip us to pieces and belittle us and make us feel unworthy of love, beauty, or a mission in life. i think that is one of the worst things a human can feel – pointless, useless, missionless.
if you don’t believe me – look at how many people take their own lives. because the pain gets too much, their life isn’t how they thought it would turn out, stress becomes overwhelming – they loose a sense of mission and worth.

satan loves this.
he loves it when i look in the mirror and absolutely tear myself apart.
he loves it when i sit at home on a week night and wonder what my life will be like in 5 years and i keep coming up empty handed and sad.
he loves it when i don’t get in the word – because it creates a space for him to squeeze into my heart.
satan loves to whisper lies into my ear so often that i believe them.
he rejoices when i believe the lies.

kiki mentioned that she was passionate about “being yourself and loving yourself. Something I’m personally working on myself and would love to see more people (especially women) take on, too!“.
y’all that hit close to home.
i guess since i let the cat out of the bag on instagram i can do it here.
i am supposed to have a date this weekend – and i’m terrified.
ok terrified is dramatic – i’m nervous as all get out.

satan has been whispering these lies of “you’re not good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, appealing enough, smart enough, interesting enough….” to the point that i’m just like ENOUGH I GET IT!
i’ve bought into some of those lies – and its so stupid.

i think that no man would be interested in me because of my list of flaws.
what garbage.
seriously – what stupid, filthy, full of lies GARBAGE.
i would say the same thing to any other lovely woman in my position.

You’re beautiful, you are intelligent, you have worth and value beyond compare, you are needed AND wanted, you’re radiant…the list goes on.
if only we could believe our pep talks.
i’m working on it though – believing the truth that is within me – the truth God wants me to know – accepting His love and comfort.
after so many years of accepting satan’s lies – and being fed insecurity from the world and relationships it gets hard to beat down the insecurity monster and allow true confidence to shine through.

it brings up a memory from a conversation with a close friend a year or so ago.
i dont remember the context of the conversation or how we got to this point, but at one moment she said, “Amy, you’re intimidating – but not in the bad way. you walk into a room and exude confidence. you present yourself as full of love and acceptance, and that you love yourself – it surprises me to hear that you don’t feel confident – because you certainly come across as confident”
it took me aback.
i remember telling her how i felt unconfident.
so for her to respond that way – floored me.
confidence is beautiful.
men say so – women say so – i think so.
having confidence in yourself, in who God is, in what you’re doing – it really comes across as put together and lovely. (again difference between confidence and cockiness)

so all of the jumbled thoughts and emotions and – uh – random words put together to say this:

guard your hearts ladies. Satan is doing his very best to have you believe the lies that you’re worth nothing – and that you’re undesirable. i’m with you – i’ve believed them too, but God’s truth is bigger. we ARE wanted, we DO have a purpose, we EXUDE beauty. believe it. even in small doses – allow yourself to believe it – i know i am working on it.

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12 comments on “frankly friday…”

  1. Ech and Will says:
    November 8, 2013 at 3:56 pm

    I love love love this post! Love!

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  2. Jessica Jean-Marie says:
    November 8, 2013 at 4:01 pm

    You will never know how badly I needed to hear this today!

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  3. Miss Riss says:
    November 8, 2013 at 4:07 pm

    This is so wonderful Amy! "…believe it. Even in small doses." This will be where I need to start, small doses of loving myself. Cause right now it's just about impossible to do so. Thanks for sharing this =)

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  4. Laura says:
    November 8, 2013 at 4:13 pm

    Amy! Love you friend! And I owe you a long email. (Weird week!) BUT… in the meantime… I know sometimes it can be really helpful to have someone simply say back to us our own words. So Amy…

    You're beautiful, you are intelligent, you have worth and value beyond compare, you are needed AND wanted, you're radiant…the list goes on.

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  5. Victoria says:
    November 8, 2013 at 7:57 pm

    Keep talking, lady! 🙂 We defiitely don't see ourselves the way God does and that is a devastating problem….We do have a mission,we do have beauty inside, and people do need to know that in Christ we LIVE.

    Thanks for the reminder!

    Have a good weekend!

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  6. Chelsea Phelps says:
    November 8, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    This is such an amazing post with so much truth! Satan will try to take us, but God's love for us is so much stronger!

    XOXO
    Chelsea
    http://www.anchorsaweighblog.com

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  7. Kiki says:
    November 9, 2013 at 1:10 am

    One of the best Frankly Friday's yet. And it's not because of the shout outs, either (although they were such a sweet surprise to see and it made me 10x's more grateful for our friendship!). Girl, I'm telling you, your blog is on fire this week. You've hit the spot every single day.

    Anyway, this sentence got me: "if only we could believe our pep talks." It's so easy for me to encourage others, to lift them up, to raise their spirits. But do I ever tell AND believe myself when either I'm told this or when I tell these things to myself? Nope. Not once, not ever. I tell people thanks, I look in the mirror and immediately disagree with whatever positive thing was said.

    Tell me again why we have to be so hard on ourselves? Honestly, this question boggles my mind every. single. day. 🙂

    But carry on. I loved reading your lines about how Satan loves it when we believe all of the lies he whispers in our ears. When you put it that way, it immediately let everything click.

    Like I told you earlier, I'm still working on loving myself. One other thing I've learned is that I have to love myself if I want to really and truly love others. And it's a struggle, but I'm glad I'm not the only one who struggles with it. And that we have a God who created me beautifully and for a purpose and who loves me even when I don't believe it.

    Love you and your heart, my friend!!

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  8. Gema I. Diaz says:
    November 9, 2013 at 8:19 am

    Wow…powerful! Thank you for sharing truth

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  9. -Bess- says:
    November 9, 2013 at 2:17 pm

    Girl, yes! I needed to hear this today!
    Love,
    -Bess-

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  10. Angela says:
    November 10, 2013 at 1:20 am

    Amen girl! We all have moments where we let our guards down and satan attacks those insecurities! I hate that. I'm sorry your date didn't go so well… I am hoping there's at least a funny story that you got out of it? You are wonderful girl, just keep believing that yourself ok?

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  11. Jess says:
    November 11, 2013 at 4:33 am

    Speaking. Directly. To. My. Heart.

    Oh my gosh, wow. I will admit that I didn't read this post on Friday, even after I had linked up. I read the first couple of sentences and then clicked away. I simply didn't want to hear it. I instead fell into listening to the lies spoken from the devil himself. But, oh, how I needed to hear this. Every day we need to hear this. Thank you for being brave, bold, and truthful enough to write these words and hit publish.

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  12. Rach @ This Italian Family says:
    November 14, 2013 at 11:02 pm

    A date?! I am so excited to hear more about this! I am (obviously) way behind in reading!

    Also, Amy, you are so right about how Satan works. So the next time you begin to feel those feelings just stop. Stop and take hold of that thought. That moment. Whatever it was that made you think you were less than. And rebuke him. Tell Satan to get behind you. Don't even let him have a foothold in your heart or mind. Jesus lives in you. You are beautiful and God's precious child. Don't let Satan make you believe otherwise.

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